CHANGE PRACTICE - PRACTISE CHANGE

Tried and proven successful in the real world Child Raising Basics.

Child raising 'how to' for parents -

a way forward for the sometimes difficult times ahead in this changing world for us and our children.

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​Course Background 
Our society is evolving at a rapid pace, bringing with it shifts in societal expectations and norms. 
Over time, authorities have made it clear that physically disciplining children, such as hitting, is no longer acceptable. However, these directives have often fallen short in critical ways, leaving many parents and caregivers without the necessary guidance. They failed to:

• Explain why physical punishment is no longer appropriate, 

• Clarify the distinction between discipline and abuse, or

• Provide effective, alternative discipline strategies to replace the outdated methods that have been practised for generations.

As a result, parents were simply told to stop physical punishment, but no reasoning or alternative approaches were offered, leaving a gap in understanding and application. ​​

In this context, numerous so-called parenting programs and methods were introduced under the banner of being the "right way" to parent. Unfortunately, many of these approaches were disconnected from real-world parenting challenges and, instead of fostering positive change, contributed to greater confusion and dysfunction within society. 

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At Umbrella Hearts, we adopt a different perspective. While we firmly stand against all forms of child abuse and advocate for its complete eradication, we also recognise that calling for change without offering viable alternatives is ineffective. Such an approach only leads to greater confusion, frustration, and ultimately failure - consequences that ripple across society for generations to come. 
Instead of simply stating, “It’s NOT OK to hurt a child” as a standalone message, we at Hearts and Hands Community Development - through the Umbrella Hearts project - are committed to bridging the gap. We focus on providing practical, proven alternatives to outdated practices, enabling parents and caregivers to transition to modern, effective methods. These approaches are designed not just to exist in theoretical or academic settings but to work in the realities of daily life, where real challenges are faced.

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We understand that there is no single solution that fits every situation. However, we firmly believe that starting with a foundational and straightforward principle - “It’s NOT OK to hurt a child; every day, it’s NOT OK” - provides a solid basis for improvement over time.
To maintain a healthy and harmonious society, we must establish clear rules, expectations, and responsibilities for all. When these elements fail to align, society risks falling into dysfunction, often characterised by a lack of respect and consideration for others.
At Umbrella Hearts, we recognise that meaningful change cannot be expected if individuals lack the knowledge or experience of what is now expected of them. This is where our self-guided course comes in. It empowers you with the information and tools needed to make an informed decision about whether to initiate positive change in your life or your child’s life. The choice to move forward lies in your hands.